Tolliver,
From time to time a certain type of poster on here, starts to tar all cabin crew with the same brush.
You need to realise that some of them don't actually fly or work with cabin crew and many are office bound and some work for other airlines but as long as they work for any airline they can post on here. Some of course are our own pilots and that is sad.
Just skip over the nasty posts because for those of us that actually fly for BA, we know that a lot of what is being said on here is either untrue or a vast exaggeration of reality.