TRPGPilot
I know exactly what you mean
I can remember flying into Cork at night in terrible winds. The twin I was flying real time was hitting shear all over the place and I can remember thinking " Oh well if I crash onto the runway all that will happen is the computer will reset and I can try again"
In a lot of ways the sim with some of the better addons is very realistic.
Really pleased that MS have resurected the sim and a new version is going to be released.
Sadly I bet they dont rewrite the flight dynamics engine which is far too complex and un real but has been in place for over a decade.
Pace