G'day to everyone, a new poster to this forum here. Been dropping in for a couple months ever since I got that shiny new PPL, and now found something I just have to reply to.
Flock1, I can totally identify with your feelings of dread for each upcoming lesson. It can be extremely discouraging. But a bit of background first . . .
Loved flying from the start, and enjoyed it up to the change of flying schools, when I began my navigation training. Got an instructor who was new to the job, and quite clearly very much present to build his hours. There I was trying my best to learn and re-learn at the same time with a new flying school (heavy on SOP's) and he would sometimes yell and often swear, getting impatient quickly and really creating a difficult environment to learn in. After speaking to a few of my friends who had the same instructor, I learnt that he had a pretty bad trend going with his students so far.
I know it can be hard knowing what you're paying for and remembering how fun flying can really be. But I suggest learning from this guy what you can about dealing with these people. Learn what you can about how you deal with heated cockpit situations. We won't always be flying with or around people we naturally get along with and I feel it is important to learn what you can from these situations.
Try talking to the guy. Let him know the effect he is having on your motivation, etc. Too often people are allowed to carry on with unacceptable behaviour simply because no one has ever laid down some simple things for them.
If all else fails, then you know ya just gotta give 'em the flick. Explain your situation to the chief and request a new instructor. But make sure you go through the proper channels, consulting your instructor first. (Then you'll always be able to look him in the eye.)
Simple?
Maybe not. But nothing in aviation is and quitting is simply not the answer. Seeking advice was the first right step. I seeked a lot from my family, and it sure helped. Once you figure things out, the fun in flying WILL come back, and it'll be worth it ;-)
I think I've said enough. If you want to hear what happened with my instructor, I'm quite willing to share (the story actually had a happy ending). But for the purposes of advice, the rest of the story is not necessary. I hope I've given you something useful
