Can I just say that, contrary to the impression you get from reading this thread, the vast majority of BA cabin crew and pilots get on very well. I work on E/F and I can tell you that it is a pleasure to work with all our airbus pilots.
This thread does seem to attract a very caustic kind of crew, both cabin and flight, and certainly does not reflect reality in BA or at least what I see on my flights.
I can see why you feel the way you do Flapsforty and at times I despair at some of the postings on here. Many of us who are not in the union anymore come on pprune to find out the latest information about the current situation at BA and in my case I often leave this thread feeling I have lost the will to live because some of the posters actually sound as if they hate crew and that's both kinds, flight and cabin.