I don't see anyone saying they just "fill it up" anywhere, so the drama queens need to step down a bit. People put onboard exactly what they feel they need on the day, and that is exactly what a captain should do, otherwise he/she is straight out of their comfort zone. There is nothing heroic about taking min fuel, and acegreaser your comments like "we fly in an airline, you are a captain" blah blah blah is bollocks.