I'm not sure on a forum such as this which displays such animosity towards cabin crew that I want to give the links though.
Percieved animosity, Pushycat, percieved animosity.
I think you will find, as has been written many, many times before, very few on here have any animosity toward Cabin Crew at all. The majority of incredularity is directed squarely at the Union BASSA and their rather outdated and interesting (fisty cuffs in the car park during preliminary negotiations anyone?) negotiating techniques!
You read into posts what YOU want to read, not necessarily the intented meaning of the poster.