I do not wish to hear your thoughts or opinions , especially in light of your extremely limited understanding of the situation.
mattyh1986 - re your last post - you're starting to repeat yourself now. You appear to be under the mistaken impression that if you start a thread on JB you have some control over what people will post - that is certainly a long way from being the case.
You always have the option of deleting the thread, of course, if you don't want to read what the nasty Pruners think about you (and on balance it's not favourable) and you could start again, but I somehow doubt if it would pan out very differently a second time.