It sort of comes down to a difficult choice.
Do you want to marry and live with the ugly but extremely rich bitch who guarantees you a nice income and easy life. It will however be her choice eternally as to if, how and when you have to sleep with her and she can throw you out any time she wants with absolutely no recourse for you.
On the other hand you can marry the pretty and decent girl with no money, you might struggle to pay your bills, but she enables you a more or less happy life, AND you retain your freedom of choice.
The metaphor applies not to the companies, but to the environement, the culture, the civilisation.
Take a deep breath and make an informed choice. What we want to get through to you, is that once you are here, it is very expensive and difficult to get out again. Especially with a family.