My God, reading some of threse posts I realise how lucky I've been in my career, I thought CRM had weeded out some of these neolithic attitudes but obviously not.
Guys what happened to the idea that up front you have two professional pilots working together for a common aim, the safe operation and carriage of passengers from A to B. In my cockpit the First Officer carries as much responsibility as me, I dont want a co-pilot who thinks that as I roll off the end of the runway he is going to fold his arms and say, it's nothing to do with me Captain, how is this idea breeding Captains for the future.
Thank god I work in a very airline orientated, SOP driven corporate company. Guys some of you need to come into the 21st century otherwise your going to get left behind.