Being the only woman pilot in my flying club I will say that I don't hang around the hangar as much as I used to. Just got tired of the continually raunchy topics being discussed. I was fortunate enough to have a male flying instructor that doesnt' have a prejucided bone in his body. Too bad the other members don't have as open a mind as he has. I thought an instrument rating would help matters a little but it hasn't made any difference.
I guess I'm used to the whole thing and it doesn't bother me too much any more. I fly more than they do and probably enjoy it twice as much!
