LNS - true, I look like a tart in my Sunday dress (vicars and tarts party, anyone?)
I had a female instructor for part of my IMC rating, and for one of my IMC renewals. Very good she was, too.
I've met at least half a dozen "lady" pilots - including Aerbabe and Whirly - and treat them as I would treat anyone else. Wellllll. . . just a little tease, perhaps...