I don't cuddle on a first date.
If the instructor is cuddly he/she is able to afford to eat so is obviously being paid above the industry standard.
Useful to know.
If I ever 'make it' in the industry I might finally be able to get back to a normal weight.
As for my instructor, I would call him wiry rather than cuddly. And besides I don't swing that way.
As for my aches and pains, now that I think about it, I *might* be unconsiously trying to give the instructor more space. Aren't I considerate?