also lots of people have mfntioned gliding so I've been googling it and it seems just as fun, easier to do and cheaper but I still really want to fly a 'proper' plane.
IMHO being in a light aircraft is about as interesting as being in a car
Better not show your mother this video of a standard pre-solo exercise
YouTube - Segelflug, Trudeln mit Fox
Last time I mentioned gliding though mum said it's got nothing to do with flying so I don't think I can just change my mind now.
Many people confuse gliding with hang-gliding or para-gliding.
If you have new information then it is, IMHO, entirely reasonable to re-evaluate opinions and decisions.
My nearest club, sleap, offers both flying and gliding (I think) so would I be able to try both and choose then?
You would be interested in pre-solo or "ab-initio" training. The website states "That’s why we don’t undertake ab-initio training" on
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British Gliding Association - UK Map for your nearest clubs.
Midland Gliding Club on the Long Mynd seems to be a similar distance from Shrewsbury.
Has anyone tried both and got a favourite?
Yes, but it is your decision that is important.