VORTime,
Not much new to add really. Don't fly with someone like that. If he's behaving like that he knows very little about flying, however many hours he has. Yes; I've had it happen, thought at the time it was because I was female; maybe it was, or maybe some people just like to throw their weight around. But the cockpit's not the place to do it. Advice or suggestions from a more experienced pilot are fine; anything else is not. I fly a lot with a friend who's a 2000+ hour instructor; she would never ever do anything like that, and she asks very politely if I want any help if I'm PIC, even in situations where I'm really struggling (a crosswind landing on Inisheer's short undulating runway in turbulence comes to mind.
) Keep away from this guy!