HiFlyer
I cannot understand why you have not called Midman's post into question, where he was explaining where crew who may have felt that intimidation had taken place, should come to the flight deck and seek guidance from the flight crew. I know that you are professional, I have never questioned it, I was just flipping the post.
On the matter of recognition, it is my belief that you are not helping yourselves. If I was cabin crew and a member of BASSA, I would want to know whether you have entered talks with BA over becoming recognised. Why would I want to know that? Because consultation (non recognition agreement) and negotiation (recognition agreement) are massively different. If you would like me to explain, I will.