Your correct, I did highlight the gay bit as it was the feature of my post.
You make a point about two very different experiences yet state that they were both gay...so whats the relevance of that? Its not like one was rude cos he was gay and the other wasnt because he was gay! Did we need to know they were gay? There are lots of different types of "gay"! Dont get me wrong, Im far from politically correct in my sense of humour and attitude but it just seemed highly unnecessary and almost offensive in the manner in which you stated it when to be honest, it would have been better if you had left it out!!!
The only impession I was left with was that you have a problem with the ole gays! LOL! But dont worry, I can assure you its not contagious! Hehehe