Ivan,
You are full of sh!t.
I work for a UK jet operator that hires almost exclusively air taxi pilots with flying backgrounds in the UK, US, Oz, NZ and Africa, and a couple of high time instructors. You couldn't ask for a more experienced, crm oriented bunch of people.
The majority of 'worrying' flying stories that you hear come from ex-military peeps and low houred guys.
I'll get my flak jacket.
Cloggy.