How about this flyboy1818 .... you work hard, get a good qualification and a good job, save your money wisely, marry and have children. When that child grows up, you want the best for them; most parents will do what they can to help their children.
You shouldn't prejudge people just because they happen to be born of parents who do have the money any more than you would prejudge someone just because they happen to be born of parents who don't.
My father paid for my CPL training - he came from a working class background but worked hard all his life. When he died, I inherited his house. Oddly, I'd prefer it if he was still alive.
Life's not fair. Don't expect it to be. Chips on shoulders have no place in a cockpit.
Cheers
Whirls