Aha, HW, here we go:
Well, what were my options?
Sledgehammer or Subtle?
First, on landing at XXX, I reminded the 2 out of the 3 rear-crew that did not come up to introduce themselves on the ground at LHR, (and they had the time) that given the scenario we were in, it would have been the thing to do - all done with smiles - in the best interests of CRM/disaster management come the unlikely moment.
Second, I reminded the Purser that I have worked quite hard to get where I am now, so I prefer on initial meet-ups to be called by my name which is on my badge, or Captain - either will do. I left it with the P.
Now, HW what would you have done.