The OIC mentality is exactly what's wrong! Nothing shortcircuits standardization more than that stupid idea. I sure hope anyone who's feeling weak enough at this point in their career to feel the need to be mentored is at least smart enough to not follow the OIC crowd! The OIC mentality is the exact opposite of professionalism, self respect and self confidence. And it's true that the OIC types are always the weak ones when it comes to their overall performance in the cockpit. No matter which seat they're in, or how long they've been around. Or for that matter if they're checkers or trainers. If you establish a solid operation for yourself according to the SOPs (the book) you can call yourself a professional and feel like one... If you operate in the OIC manner, you'll always be acting, looking and feeling like the scared confused little sh!t you've chosen to be and nothing more!
A bit harsh I know, but the truth usually is!