dry your eyes princess.....
sleepless in hk.... no offense but it sounds like you need to grow some balls....
people making phone calls and scaring you in the night, why dont you tell them to meet you somewhere so you can "discuss it like gentlemen". thats what i would do with tactics like that. then whinging about your girl friend not being there because she was bored. ive spend many and hour / dollar in wanchai. could amuse myself for months there.. some of the 24 hr hairdressers are very friendly.... you dont need her now do you? i can give you some names and addresses if need be.
just remember youve got a job with a damned good airline. cant believe you went and asked them for time off. your on probation!!! you basically shut up and do your job for the next however long.
hope ive been helpful.
ps remember you want one in each port anyway...