Jonkil,
Its the attitude that starts arguments. The "you need us more than we will ever need you" stinks. You must see that.
Also i have had posts of mine deleted for just disagreeing with a mod. Thats not fair in any way shape or form.
I have been a mod of a busy forum for the last 9 years and can honestly say i have had to delet posts but always pmd the person and explained why and never had a bad attitude towards them.
Thats the difference.