Unhappyjack - ok I'll uncharacteristically bite
It would appear that you have been judged by your peers and it is you who would appear to have come across as a "===============" if need be lets have a vote
Suggest you calm down . Dont say on here what you wouldn't say in real life.
No wonder your ex-pat - nobody wants you over here - I'm glad you lost your money
ps your on my ignore list - forums better off without individuals like you