Carlin
My ex wife suffered for years with panic attacks even now after loads of treatment and coming to terms with it she still gets episodes.
The fact that the symptoms dissappear when you are again near the ground or assured of landing would indicate anxiety, panic sysmptoms which can involve all the symptoms you mention and more.
My ex often left a trolly full of groceries at the checkout but felt better when she left the store.
Next time at the store she created the symtoms even worse than before until she couldnt shop. At the worst point she retreated to the home.
Follow the advice here and make sure you are Physically ok that will settle some of the anxiety then you need to find out whats causing you so much stress and in the air is not the place to do so especially when your 7 year old son and relatives rely on you. At least fly with a qualified safety pilot or instructor for now for their sake.
Pace
Last edited by Pace; 1st May 2009 at 20:40.