Works both ways .. years ago we had a rather eccentric captain, now sadly not with us - Captain Zero will be known to many readers. As a reasonably senior F/O at the time, I came to a fairly quick understanding with him regarding his numerical eccentricity ... thereafter we were good mates and I have to say I thoroughly enjoyed flying with him. Others found him a right PITA ... horses for courses, I guess.
Point is that there is naught to be achieved by sitting and sulking...if there is a problem it needs to be put on table and sorted out before it poisons the wine in the chalice.