Well this kind of thread/discussion/chat pops up every now & then sadly mainly because it's getting more & more obvious that R/T procedures play little by way of importance in airmanship these days.
It's difficult enough trying to deal out the cards (pilots) whom I come across at a conutry strip that have little idea what they are doing other than steering a plane around the sky willy nilly with little clue half the time of any sought of procedures.
"UTR" sadly I wasn't too shocked to read yr comments but very disappointed. Blame? Well perhaps to start with the level of training, afterall nobody is born with experience to fly & everything that's involved we are all taught from scratch.
Answer? ZERO, not fixable sadly
Wmk2
p.s...............just so some of you pvt drivers don't get too cranky here every now & then I come across a pvt pilot who is very pro & it shows, you are a minority sadly.