Yap IO, the option nr 3, basically not allowing the kids to visit their dad is the bad one also here in NL.
U males have got it bad. In Holland at least Alimony is well enforced (and rightly so) but a mother refusing to let her kids go see their father is an option.
Until the courts immediately put a large fine on their refusal to let the kids visit, there will be many mums refusing to let their kids fly without a right to do so...
The example you gave on her wanting you to have the kids cos of her date sounds like my wife!
You re sure we re not both x-es of the same!? Jeezz we had bad taste!
