I do think it is worth reminding ourselves of the OP's ACTUAL question?
i had been talking to a pilot friend recently and he had told me that a co pilot had reported the pilot for allowing fueling to take place while passengers were deboarding....
so who is right??
.......and the answer is - it depends on the airline's SOPs. If this was
'reported' it will be 'sorted' as they say, one way or the other. There is no way any of our resident experts here will know the answer.