Sunny,
Here's the problem as I see it:-
You are a RECREATIONAL pilot. Don't try and find satisfactory ways of advancing you hobby at schools geared towards professional training.
You need to get seriously involved in a purely recreational avenue.
I've always had a foot in both camps. Whilst flying for a living, I've also been involved in skydiving, aerobatics and gliding. I can recommend any of those to you as a very fulfilling way to enjoy flying without going anywhere near a flying school.
My suggestion would be to go and do a thorough aerobatic course with an aerobatic instructor in a REAL aerobatic aircraft (Decathlon minimum- C150 Aerobats need not apply!!) then perhaps look at getting into a syndicate ownership of a descent aerobatic aircraft.
I don't know what you've done up until now, but the satisfaction of flying,mastering, and competing in something like a Pitts S1 is near the pinnacle of aviation experiences.
Next time you've got leave, go and spend a week with Phil Unicomb at Maitland. It could SERIOUSLY mess up your life!!!
edited because I crossed with djpil and wanted to say, Yo Pilks!!!