...there is a great CRM training video out there of a three man crewed aircraft filmed in the sim. Basically, the Captain was pre-briefed that during the sim checkride he'd basically be a total sh*t to the other two crew. If I remember correctly he starts off with a "right then sunshine, everything on this side of the center-console is mine and you don't touch it" and it progresses to a "gear up, flaps up, shut up" take-off.
The point being - that video has all the destructive elements of non-CRM in it, do the opposite and you should be well on the way towards setting a path to crew harmony.
You could also try looking in here for some suitable ideas:
http://www.pprune.org/safety-crm-qa-...e-planning-93/