When an accidental death occurs the painful need to understand and find answers remains. The time it takes to get the 'facts' can sadly take years but the void this creates can be very difficult to deal with.
Is it not feasible the coulda, woulda, shoulda, opinion, debate, argument and fact allows relatives and friends, who may have little or no experience of aviation, to explore and come to understand the possibilities, from the realistic and probable to the ludicrous?
Of course people would never say to a grieving relative what they would write here, as such this medium allows for an open, honest (however misguided), full and frank exchange. To have this forum, even with its faults, must be of great benefit to those who are desperately trying to understand.
I hope you never have cause to debate it but should the unthinkable happen this would be the first place my wife would come to get more information.