You really need to appreciate that people dont just accept the "oh you are just SLF" any more.
Everyone and his uncle are now so busy asserting themselves and their percieved rights, that they never seem to have time to consider if it is appropriate.
The "Me" seems to be worshipped and come before anything else. Everybody is an instant expert with the "right" to voice an opinion. Again, nobody seems to consider if it is appropriate.