I'd suggest you enjoy viewing aeroplanes and stop viewing things so exciteably and seeing things which are not there. Because 2 aeroplanes cross in the sky does not mean they have just missed each other. There is not a drama every time you view aeroplanes! Reports like yours do nothing for nervous flyers. If there was a drama, it will be very obvious, and probably reported in the news. You can only identify a drama if you are an expert watcher, and even then you will probably be wrong.