hi,. .perhaps buy her a book on the subject, I believe if you go to this link at amazon . .<a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/ASIN/1840241241/o/qid=1011703517/sr=2-1/ref=sr_bt_1/026-8412392-7177215" target="_blank">http://www.amazon.co.uk/exec/obidos/ASIN/1840241241/o/qid=1011703517/sr=2-1/ref=sr_bt_1/026-8412392-7177215</a>. .It is written by a pilot explaining what goes on during the flight, and a psychologist. One of my friends mum purchased it, I think it was helpful.. .The thing I find odd, I have a friend who refuses to fly on commercial flights, but really wants to come flying with me when I finish my PPL....bizarre.. .Good luck.. .Tom.