+1....well said / There are a lot of pilots in here living a world where things don't go wrong, just pull the levers before V1, push them up after. I take solace in the fact that maybe these posters are retired, don't fly, unemployed, or at the least FOs where they are not allowed to make a decision...
Of course you and most others here have a damn good idea of how to make rational decisions of whether to go or not.
The problem is the time base that you are constrained to rationlize such a decision and so little training or experience in creating rational thoughts outside the box in this time period.
So I'll rather trust my life with pilots that think inside the box (of their training), for that has been proven statistically safe.