Some free advice to all those contemplating destroying themselves by getting married, first time or 10th time.
As once told by a Lawyer..................the next time you feel the urge to get married just go out onto the street & the very first woman you accidently bump into buy here a house, that way you get it out of yr system & you can get on with life as we where meant to be...................not committed to just one "mate"!

Afterall the amount of broken relationships the world over is good testament to that theory!
Good luck with a cheap lawyer, cheap isn't always the best
CW