Huh? When I was married, my wife was delighted for me when I travelled in a big seat and commiserated when the company or client would not pay. Like travelling to HKG three times in a year in Y. Them's the breaks.
If you are telling your life partner that you are in Y when you are not - she will find out, or already know. If you tell your biz partners - they will find out through office paperwork, or already know.
Sheesh!