******* brilliant opportunity to turn the good old female line around on the enemy so sieze it. Sit her down and say....
If you love me you'll let me go for it!
Then watch her face and I bet you anything that somehow it'll be different!lol
Like I said earlier, its very difficult but unless you have someone supportive behind you then it aint gonna work. I presonally agree with the notion of posting a pic and we shall decide whether shes worth it for you!
I've never known any woman to like guy that they have under the thumb! Sure they may like to brag that they have you there but in reality they dont find it attractive and actually want you to be your own man. Lay down the law and she'll soon come running! Good luck!!!
CS