Until it was proven that the doctor had "almost killed" my child, it would never even occur to me to think along those lines. That is a ridiculous analogy.
You must be female. Men always prepare for the worst and are pleasently happy when the worst does not happen. Females usually look for the best and are pissed when it does not happen.
ps. I am hoping that it was not their fault, but with the track record of most accidents being human error the odds are against us.