Sierra, how about
:
If a
man CHOOSES to have children, I feel he should be there for them ESPECIALLY when they are young & not fitted in between his rosters. It is very difficult to have your bread buttered on both sides I feel without causing psychological harm to your children. If he makes a decision to have children he has to be willing to make a commitment & sacrifices for them. THEY are the most important issue as far as I'm concerned. But men are not just baby makers & should have the right to a career if they choose.