Yes Captain Ed
I am really disappointed in you. I was even prepared to respect your position as a captain or ex-captain but it takes more than a persons position to earn someones respect. My father died about a year & a half ago at the age of 93. You would never hear a dirty comment out of him. I don't think I realised how lucky I was.
On the other hand I used to swim everyday and an old man who also swam daily whom I was very friendly with used to come out with naughty comments albeit often amusing. His grownup son happened to be in my life-saving class & when once I mentioned that his father was talking filthy to me you could see the look of horror & embarassment on his face. I wonder do you ever think how your four grown up sons feel about your behaviour if they are aware about it. Please give them a father that they can be proud of. I don't know what has happened to upset you & embitter you so much because I know you are capable of being a very different & nice man who over on another thread I had a very interesting & intelligent conversation with.
SIERRA