As far as i know, in America, Canada, Turkey and some parts of Europe, like Belgium, they reffer to Cabin Crew as FLIGHT ATTENDANTS. So back off a bit if i may politely ask you.
Now, and i might be wrong so please correct me, it seems that you dislike or have a not so good opinion about Cabin Crew. If so, why don't you operate on a Freighter?
Let's face it, Cabin Crew needs Flight Decks and the other way around. Aren't we suppose to be a team? Or am I too old fashioned? Where's the respect gone?
I have never encountered rude or too demanding pilots. But maybe i was lucky. My point being don't tar all CABIN CREW as you like (and by all means, it's your right) to call us with the same brush.
Take care