Sorry mate. Wrong forum. For everybody else. Use this as a warning. Make it simple. Dont get married (like me for many years!). When u feel the build up head down to Boracay or Neptune, there you will find a lot of real love. They will swallow and make no complaints afterwards, or at least they will not sue you and claim the assets you have build up.
Now if thats not the advice of the day I dont know.