So Reasearch101 are you any the wiser?
In general I think we all respect the job the military pilots do, but since these people are individuals, some we would go to the pub with, others we wouldn't trust to take our granny home. But you get that in all walks of life.
Having had the pleasure of working with both civvy and mil pilots working in a mil type role, there really is nothing to choose between which system produces a better pilot. So those who want to wave their dicks about, put them away since while you have your pants down, you are in danger of talking through your bottom.