Clematis , my dear.
You seem very bitter and twisted, not like you.
Your "allegations", I would suggest are sailing fairly close the old Northerly Breeze whistling around your nethers. Wouldn't like to see you defend such "allegations " in court.
Any proof...or just looking for someone to blame.
Tell you what, why not let's get totogether down the Old Cherry Tree, and I'll help take your mind of it