h23, good to see your thread has clocked up nearly 15,000 views - well done! Hmmm... struck a nerve or two with the indoctrinated (read: brianwashed). A mention of family = happiness in a previous thread. Yep, and also career satisfaction and a certain amount of identity that goes with that. Good on you, once again. For every individual bagging you out, there are at least two supporting you and some of the others are deluding themselves. All the best to you.