Dear Mr Angry, or Carnage.. Whatever your name is...
You appear to be extremely wound up about this.
Are you a BA manager taking the P?, a journalist?, or even,... the husband?
My original remark, some while ago, when this issue first occured was only that it did a huge dis-service to the many other females pilots [I've flown with loads] who wanted a career in aviation, and, whether you agree or not, were prepared to sacrifice something for it like most of us do.
I truely sincerely wish the lady and her children health and happiness. That is from the heart. But we all have to make life choices regarding careers, you cannot have it all your own way, a decent career, salary, etc. comes at a price. If you sign on the dotted line that says you have to do X Y Z, then you cannot change the rules after you signed up for the job.
