By all means tell me to wind my neck in but may I ask you - is it really the RAF that is at the root of your problem? By leaving the RAF is it possible that you add to your concerns by having to find a job on top of whatever else is giving you grief?
There really is a lot of support that you could draw upon in the RAF. I'm disappointed for you that you don't appear to have a boss that could assist you - probably because he's cutting his teeth at a tricky time, however, there are plenty of other options and I urge you to try to find someone that will listen before you go the solicitor route. Is there an approachble SNCO you know?
Good luck.