Muddy Skipper:-
It's hard to be simplistic and overlook someone rogering you and inturn your wife and kids.
So this has never happened before? Cope with it! We all have; do I complain about 12 years before the mast, broken marriage, kids growing up without you etc etc? NO! It's aviation - supply and demand - life - if you want stability and lifestyle become a plumber!
BTW whats a buggie smuggler? I wouldnt want any bugs down where I usually keep my Budgie.
Capt Jack Sparrow