I, like InFinRetirement and Shack, spent more nights in our air raid shelter than I care to remember.
As an ATC cadet I flew across Germany into Berlin a few years after the war when the cities were still just heaps of rubble.
My attitude then was the same as now.
They would have done the same or worse to us if they had the capability, so they have no valid cause to complain about what happened, tough sh!t.